2016年4月16日星期六

The time-frame of loving or being loved

She said that she would never raise a cat again.

She said that she was deeply hurt upon
the death of her cat some years ago, therefore
she dared not raise another one to
avoid being hurt once again upon
the separation with her cat when it died.   
 
She was reminded that it would be the cat being deeply hurt
if she died earlier than the cat! 
 
In fact, affection can be mutual and 
your counterpart can have a same feeling as you have.
 
We have only one life!  If you have the confidence to have 
an affectoin-tied relationship between you and whoever, 
never bypass the affection you just fear to lose ultimately.