2026年5月24日星期日

Harm is Still Done

In normal human relationships,
People often hurt each other.

Some people even devise plans
to hurt others on purpose.

However, most people hurt others accidentally
without even realizing they have done so.

But the harm is still done,
and God will treat them the same.

________


King Gnu -「白日」


Sometimes, without even realizing it,
I accidentally hurt someone.
Only after losing everything do
I begin to understand
the mistake I made.
It’s already too late, you know—
like it was in the past.
Even that dazzling, brilliant time
from long ago—
I still have to take steps
forward toward tomorrow.
Even if it’s snowing a whole sky full of snow,
it’s the same.
For the me of right now,
what exactly can I do?
what exactly can I still become?
If it’s for the sake of living for someone—
then it isn’t possible to
just “do the right thing,” is it?
If we could meet one day,
somewhere on a street,
would you still remember my name?
At that time, surely—
there will be the gentle breeze of spring.
Transfom into a brand-new self—
start over, begin again,
live a whole new life.
On the tightly connected
endlessly stretching road,
I am moving forward right now.
Say goodbye to
everything pure and spotless.
A whole sky full of fluttering,
scattering white snow.
Please, accept all of me.
At least, for today is enough.
Hide away everything.
It’s already too late, you know—
like it was in the past.
Even if it’s so enviable—
I still have to take steps forward
toward tomorrow.
Even if it’s snowing a whole sky
full of snow,
it’s the same.
Back then, laughing as we always did—
I mistook it,
thinking we could understand each other.
We missed the signs—
those ambiguous hints.
A never-ending searching,
looking for where the problem lies.
Over the seasons.
If we could still meet—
could you still call out your name?
Transfom into a brand-new self—
start over, begin again,
live a whole new life.
Just a single layer of skin left there—
connecting the head and the body.
This helpless “now.”
No matter what, I have to keep living.
Say goodbye to everything
pure and spotless.
A whole sky full of fluttering,
scattering white snow.
Right now, please freeze my heart—
so that I can forget all of the past.
Can I open my eyes one day morning
and become someone somewhere else?
That’s impossible, isn’t it?
Just pretend you didn’t hear anything.
In this everyday life that isn’t busy,
the only thing that gets layered
on top of everything is age.
On the other side across the way—
waiting for me, in the end:
is it heaven or is it hell?
No matter when,
humans are slow to realize things.
Not knowing what they’re plotting
in their stomachs.
But even so, they still love—
and are loved.
To know that living on is already a fate
that’s decided.
What a life full of regrets—
and mistakes that can never be made up for.
There’s always one or two,
everyone has them, don’t they?
Isn’t it just like that?!
So damn frustrating.
Transfom into a brand-new self—
start over, begin again,
live a whole new life.
On the tightly connected,
endlessly stretching road,
I am moving forward right now.
Say goodbye to everything
pure and spotless.
A whole sky full of fluttering,
scattering white snow.
Please, accept all of me.
At least, for today is enough.
Hide away everything.

2026年5月23日星期六

Good Dream Good Luck

All along, I always have bad dreams. 
Last night, however, 
I had a few good dreams, 
and I became quite worried because 
I was told that, in dream-interpretation, 
what happens in a dream corresponds to 
the opposite situation in real life. 
So a good dream means bad luck. 

I must be Ah Q at this time: 
I told myself, this time is an exception—surely, 
a good dream means good luck.

一直以來,我總是發惡夢。
然而就在昨晚, 我發了幾個好夢,
這反而讓我十分擔心,
因為曾有人告訴我:
在釋夢的領域裡,
夢中所發生的事,
是對應著現實中的相反情形。
所以, 好夢就意味著壞運氣。

此時我一定得像阿 Q 一樣自我調解,
我對自己說,這次是個例外——
肯定是, 好夢意味著好運氣。



Ruth B | In My Dreams | CBC Music Festival


The lights are bright tonight, the music loud
A perfect mess, that's what surrounds me
Then I see you over there, 
I can't seem to break the stare
Maybe it's 'cause your shirt is my favorite color
Then you walk on over with a smoulder
And you hand me your number, 
I say, "What is this?"
You say, "Love at first sight, it exists"
But I've had my heart broken 
so many times before
Yeah, I've walked through 
so many empty doors
But if I see you in my dreams tonight
Then maybe you were right
Then I'll call you in the morning
If I see you in my dreams tonight
And you take my hands and tell me
"I've been waiting for you"
Then I'll tell you, "Me too"
If I see you in my dreams tonight
I start to drive away and smile like I'm insane
How can I feel this way? 
I don't even know your name
The napkin doesn't say
Then I remember that I vowed not let 
anyone enter my heart
I say, "What is this?"
I know love at first sight can't exist
But if I see you in my dreams tonight
Then maybe you were right
And I'll call you in the morning
If I see you in my dreams tonight
Then you take my hands and tell me
"I've been waiting for you"
Then I'll tell you, "Me too"
If I see you in my dreams tonight
Maybe we'll meet in a different dimension
And you can tell me all the things 
you didn't mention
Maybe we'll meet in a different dimension
And you can tell me all the things 
you didn't mention
You'll say, "What is this?"
I'll say, "I guess love at first sight exist"
'Cause I saw you in my dreams that night
And I knew that you were right
So I called you in the morning
(In the morning, in the morning)
Yeah, I saw you in my dreams that night
And you took my hands and told me
"I've been waiting for you"
And I told you, "Me too"
Yeah, I saw you in my dreams that night
If I see you in my dreams tonight


2026年5月21日星期四

Bad Friends

Looking back, every stage of life
came with a few “bad friends.”

Spending time with them can
make life feel a lot diverse.
Different “bad friends” contribute
in different ways,
so in my mind there’s even
a “best bad friend” vote.

But as time goes on,
I found my personality traits and life views
did not really match with 
those“bad friends”.

But the truth is, these so-called “bad friends” may
simply be people whose values,
lives and day-to-day routines
moved in directions that diverted from mine.
And yet, if I forced myself to keep
treating them as close friends,
it would become really tiring and painful.

If being around them caused
negative changes to my life,
then I could only, reluctantly,
create distance from them.

However, there should be some other people
who could share these ”bad friends” ’s 
ways of thinking 
would consider them as 
real “good friends”.

回想過去,每個人生階段都有些損友。
與損友交往能令生活的內容豐富了不少。

損友的貢獻不同,
所以心目中有最佳損友的選舉。
但時間一長,
損友與自己不契合的性格及人生觀漸漸顯現。

但所謂損友,
可能祇是大家道不同,
與他的人生及生活相左,
但焗住做好朋友就會好辛苦。

與損友交往若會對自己人生有負改變,
只能無何奈何與他疏遠。

其實損友對與他道相同的人往往是真正益友。



Bees Gees - Sweet Song of Summer





I can feel you sweet song of summer
Your music comforts my lonely reign
I can hear you in evil darkness
That empty feelings, I'm near you again

I am yours forever and this I emphasize
Your never-ending hurting and criticize

We are friends forever and this I emphasize
Your never-ending hurting and criticize


2026年5月19日星期二

Be Who You Are

It is not easy to be who you are.

Life does not allow you
to make no compromise
when interacting with others.

Someone may be clever enough
to allow himself to make
only small compromises
without breaking his bottom line.

But the bottom line is always set
to be broken—
uncontrollably, unexpectedly,
and unpredictably.




The Bee Gees - Be Who You Are


Be who you are
Don't ever change
The world was made to 
measure for your smile
So smile

Those crazy dreams
We threw, we threw away
I've never been alone with you
I never could
They say

That love will find a way
And love will never be set free
And I won't ever let you be
You could not understand
You never will

Be who you are
I bless, I bless your name
And all that summer madness 
caused the rain
And we, we

The glory that we made
My love will grace the halls of time
For love that never can be mine
You could not love me then
I love you still




 

2026年5月14日星期四

Professionalism in the Age of AI (Professionals 3)

With the advent of AI,
everyone is expected to be
professionally competent
in every aspect of their work.

The reason is that AI has raised the standards
and expectations for professional conduct 
from professionals, and also non-professionals.
Therefore, when people communicate 
with one another in the same field, 
they can speak using the same—
or very closely aligned—
standards and terminology, or jargons,
with content that is often very similar,
and sometimes even identical.


Leon the Professional (1994) 
(Sting - Shape of My Heart)



2026年5月10日星期日

Happy Mother’s Day!


Every Mother’s Day,
everyone cheers—either 
for themselves or for others—
“Happy Mother’s Day!”

This is a kind of wish or hope,
not necessarily a statement of fact.

Mother’s Day—
can it truly be happy?
It depends on 
what kind of person the mother is;
and it also depends on 
what kind of person her child is.

Do the mother and her child fit well together 
in some aspects of life?


每逢母親節,
大家都對自己或别人,
說句「母親節快樂」,

這是一句祝福或期許的說話。
未必是事實的陳述。

母親節一定可以快樂嗎?
要看母親是怎樣的人;
也要看其子女是怎樣的人。

母親和孩子在生活上,
有些方面有好好的契合嗎?




2026年5月6日星期三

No “Dream Lover” in My Dream

When I was a teenage, 
I have feelings for several singers 
in different time periods—
all of them were in my “dream lover” category.

However, these “dream lovers” can’t become 
real-life lovers of mine, 
because if their images were truly real, 
their personalities, life experiences, 
and their life styles 
wouldn’t suit them to be my partner.

Now I seldom have feelings for 
 a new-generation singer on the premise of 
being a “dream lover” ,
because our age gap is too big, 
and their carefully crafted “persona images” 
often don’t match my character.

But that doesn’t mean I never have 
a good impression of anyone. 
Sometimes I end up being 
attracted to a new singer 
because of their talents for composing, 
the content of their lyrics, or 
their attitude toward creating music.

Without having any "dream lover" 
appearing in my dream, 
it’s hard not to feel a little lonely.

讀書時,在不同時段,
喜歡過幾位歌星,
都是「夢中情人」級數的。

其實這些「夢中情人」,
不可能成為現實中的情人,
因為她們的形象若是真實,
她們的性格、經歷及生活風格等
都不適合作為我的情人的。

現在很少以「夢中情人」的前提
去喜歡新一代的歌星了,
因為年齡差距太大,
而且他們太刻意的「人設形象」
往往不合我的性格。

但可也不是完全沒有喜歡的。
有時會因為作曲的天份、歌詞的內容,
或創作的態度,
去喜歡一個新歌星的。

夢中少了情人出現,
難免有點寂寞。



Kate Bush - The Man with the Child in His Eyes

I hear him, before I go to sleep
And focus on the day that's been
I realise he's there
When I turn the light off and turn over
Nobody knows about my man
They think he's lost on some horizon
And suddenly I find myself
Listening to a man I've never known before
Telling me about the sea
All his love is 'til eternity
Ooh, he's here again
The man with the child in his eyes
Ooh, he's here again
The man with the child in his eyes
He's very understanding
And he's so aware of all my situations
When I stay up late
He's always waiting, but I feel him hesitate
Oh, I'm so worried about my love
They say, "No, no, it won't last forever!"
And here I am again, my girl
Wondering what on Earth I'm doing here
Maybe he doesn't love me
I just took a trip on my love for him
Ooh, he's here again
The man with the child in his eyes
Ooh, he's here again
The man with the child in his eyes


2026年5月1日星期五

Learning From Mistakes

Sometimes, I learn something 
from my own mistakes.
But I always remind myself,
I can’t only learn something 
from my own mistakes.

I should learn something 
from others’ mistakes 
to enable me to make less mistakes.



The Korgis - Everybody's Got To Learn Sometime

 
Change your heart, look around you
Change your heart, it will astound you
I need your lovin' like the sunshine
Everybody's got to learn sometime
Everybody's got to learn sometime
Everybody's got to learn sometime
Change your heart, look around you
Change your heart, will astound you
I need your lovin' like the sunshine
Everybody's got to learn sometime
Everybody's got to learn sometime

Everybody's got to learn sometime
I need your lovin' like the sunshine
Everybody's got to learn sometime
Everybody's got to learn sometime