Quotas to be happy and quotas to be sad

We should have a fixed amount of sadness and

a fixed amount of happiness in life.

So when we are sad,

we are consuming our sadness,  

and our sadness in our whole life is lessened. 

So just allow ourselves to be sad as we know that we should consume them, othewise,

more sadness will attack us 

at the later part of our life that is not desirable.

 

So when we are happy,

we are consuming our happiness,  

and our happiness in our whole life is lessened. 

So don't let ourselves be too happy as we know that we should consume them, othewise,

less happiness will come to us 

at the later part of our life that is not desirable.


曾路得 ~ 那一天  

再見舊友　感觸萬千
舊日笑聲似在眼前
敘敘往日舊情誼
問問抱負與心願
世界在轉　星光在閃
萬物也適應自然
現在你或未如願
命運每天都變遷
得者莫喜　輪流轉風光變
失者莫憂　仍能等那一天　呀
以往大志今天沒展
舊日理想我沒法圓
但是以後或如願
夢幻理想在前面
再見舊友　感觸萬千
舊日笑聲似在眼前
敘敘往日舊情誼
問問抱負與心願
世界在轉　星光在閃
萬物也適應自然
現在你或未如願
命運每天都變遷
得者莫喜　輪流轉風光變
失者莫憂　仍能等那一天　呀
以往大志今天沒展
舊日理想我沒法圓
但是以後或如願

Loose ends to fix life

Life can never be perfect! 

So we cannot always aim to 

achieve something perfectly in life, 

just as we cannot always get 100% full marks 

for our examinations in schools, especially when we are advanceing to higher levels of studying. 

We can hardly get full marks for tertiary courses. 

So we should learn to accept imperfectness. 

Or we would feel very frustrated or become every stressful when we are in the state of imperfectness when doing something. 

We should allow some possible loose ends for 

anything we have done, 

the loose ends may be something that cannot be achieved, or something that can be ignored 

without affecting the whole matter. 

Loose ends are the strong anchors 

to keep us afloat and ashore, 

loose ends are saving ends in life~

AABB --AA Baby

Recently, there is a piece of news reporting that a pair of lovers fought against each other and

the Police was finally called to the scene to settle the case.

The fight was caused by the female insisting in 

having AA for the meal

while the male wanted to pay for the female also.

Becuase of this incident,

I like to grant a special name "AA Baby" to this lady, !

She is such a lovely baby, a fair lady! 

For we Hongkong people,

AA, when applied to paying bills, means "All Average" or "Arithmetic Average".

Each attendant of the meal pays his/her fair share for the meal.    

In English, the terms used is "going Dutch".

Some people wanted to be treated,

but there are always some others who do not want to be treated. 

Yes, a fair share prevents possible future obligations

arising from the "free meal".

You know, there is no free lunch for normal social interactions! 

Luxe - Paul Taylor