Bad Friends

Looking back, every stage of life

came with a few “bad friends.”

Spending time with them can

make life feel a lot diverse.

Different “bad friends” contribute

in different ways,

so in my mind there’s even

a “best bad friend” vote.

But as time goes on,

I found my personality traits and life views

did not really match with 

those“bad friends”.

But the truth is, these so-called “bad friends” may

simply be people whose values,

lives and day-to-day routines

moved in directions that diverted from mine.

And yet, if I forced myself to keep

treating them as close friends,

it would become really tiring and painful.

If being around them caused

negative changes to my life,

then I could only, reluctantly,

create distance from them.

However, there should be some other people

who could share these ”bad friends” ’s 

ways of thinking 

would consider them as 

real “good friends”.

回想過去，每個人生階段都有些損友。

與損友交往能令生活的內容豐富了不少。

損友的貢獻不同，

所以心目中有最佳損友的選舉。

但時間一長，

損友與自己不契合的性格及人生觀漸漸顯現。

但所謂損友，

可能祇是大家道不同，

與他的人生及生活相左，

但焗住做好朋友就會好辛苦。

與損友交往若會對自己人生有負改變,

只能無何奈何與他疏遠。

其實損友對與他道相同的人往往是真正益友。

Bees Gees - Sweet Song of Summer

I can feel you sweet song of summer
Your music comforts my lonely reign
I can hear you in evil darkness
That empty feelings, I'm near you again

I am yours forever and this I emphasize
Your never-ending hurting and criticize

We are friends forever and this I emphasize
Your never-ending hurting and criticize